{"id":12509,"date":"2014-08-01T07:13:01","date_gmt":"2014-08-01T11:13:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.damasketdentelle.com\/?p=12509"},"modified":"2020-07-30T13:30:03","modified_gmt":"2020-07-30T17:30:03","slug":"enfin-libre-une-histoire-de-couches","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/damasketdentelle.com\/index.php\/2014\/08\/enfin-libre-une-histoire-de-couches\/","title":{"rendered":"Enfin libre : une histoire de couches"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c0 37 ans et apr\u00e8s 3 enfants, je peux finalement crier victoire! Victoire de pouvoir tourner la page sur le long\u2026 tr\u00e8s long, chapitre des couches.<\/p>\n

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\"freedom\"<\/p>\n

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C\u2019est que j\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 il y a 10 ans avec Ma\u2019ila – et mon z\u00e8le de jeune m\u00e8re – de ne lui faire porter que des couches lavables. Quatre ans apr\u00e8s, on a remis \u00e7a avec la naissance de Madie – et beaucoup moins de z\u00e8le – alors qu\u2019elle a arbor\u00e9 fi\u00e8rement 2 ans et demi de couches jetables.<\/p>\n

Quinze mois plus tard, notre Teddy est n\u00e9 et on a recommenc\u00e9 une troisi\u00e8me fois le rituel. Mais c\u2019est l\u00e0 que \u00e7a s\u2019est compliqu\u00e9\u2026 Teddy a 4 ans et demi et il vient tout juste d\u2019arr\u00eater de porter des couches.<\/p>\n

Haaaaa, j\u2019entends sortir de mon \u00e9cran les commentaires : \u00abBen voyons, 4 ans et demi et encore en couches, ils ne font pas leur travail de parents, c\u2019est du caprice\u00bb. Et vous savez quoi? Par le pass\u00e9, j\u2019aurais peut-\u00eatre eu le m\u00eame regard d\u00e9sobligeant envers les parents d\u2019un enfant beaucoup trop grand pour n\u00e9gligemment refuser de porter des sous-v\u00eatements.<\/p>\n

Mais depuis un peu plus d\u2019un an maintenant, mon regard a chang\u00e9 du tout au tout. Ce n\u2019est pas du caprice qui a fait en sorte que mon petit bonhomme a port\u00e9 des Huggies jusqu\u2019\u00e0 la semaine derni\u00e8re. Ce n\u2019est pas non plus parce que je suis une maman qui est occup\u00e9e par ma carri\u00e8re que j\u2019ai n\u00e9glig\u00e9 de prendre soin d\u2019apprendre la propret\u00e9 \u00e0 mon fils.<\/p>\n

Teddy est fabuleux! Il sait presque lire tout seul en r\u00e9citant des phrases enti\u00e8res de lettres, les unes apr\u00e8s les autres, sans jamais se tromper. Il compte \u00e0 reculons de 50 \u00e0 0 (en anglais toujours par contre) sans se tromper non plus. Et pourtant, mon mari et moi perdions notre latin \u00e0 essayer de lui apprendre la n\u00e9cessit\u00e9 d\u2019aller aux toilettes.<\/p>\n

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\"boy<\/p>\n

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Les sp\u00e9cialistes m\u2019ont dit que c\u2019est parce que les enfants autistes n\u2019ont parfois pas conscience de leur corps physique. J\u2019ai tendance \u00e0 le croire. Surtout quand je le vois arriver avec un orteil en sang, parce qu\u2019il s\u2019est accroch\u00e9 au parc, sans se plaindre le moindrement et sans une larme.<\/p>\n

Mais vous savez quoi? Ces sp\u00e9cialistes l\u00e0 n\u2019\u00e9taient pas au parc avec moi, ou au centre d\u2019achats, ou m\u00eame \u00e0 la piscine alors que je devais retirer la couche de mon fils avant qu\u2019il se baigne. Ce n\u2019est pas \u00e9crit dans le visage de mon fils qu\u2019il est autiste et qu\u2019il se peut qu\u2019il d\u00e9montre des comportements atypiques aux standards \u00abnormaux\u00bb de d\u00e9veloppements des enfants.<\/p>\n

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\"boy<\/p>\n

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C\u2019\u00e9tait ce qui me faisait le plus peur du fait d\u2019avoir un enfant \u00ab diff\u00e9rent \u00bb<\/a>, mais je viens de r\u00e9aliser encore quelque chose<\/strong>. Ces regards d\u00e9sobligeants sont dirig\u00e9s envers moi, comme \u00e9tant la maman \u00abpas \u00e0 son affaire<\/em>\u00bb et non envers mon fils (pour l\u2019instant). Et \u00e7a c\u2019est quelque chose avec quoi je peux vivre. Mes \u00e9paules sont bien plus larges que les siennes, bien plus habitu\u00e9es \u00e0 l\u2019ignorance et plus aptes \u00e0 g\u00e9rer les sentiments n\u00e9gatifs.<\/p>\n

C\u2019est donc, les \u00e9paules bien hautes, que je vous dit haut et fort, que mon fils Teddy ne porte plus de couches. Ouste les couches, F. ii. N. ii !<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sur ce \u00ab boost \u00bb d\u2019\u00e9nergie, je me sens maintenant pr\u00eate \u00e0 attaquer le prochain d\u00e9fi\u2026 celui de le faire manger assis sur une chaise plut\u00f4t qu\u2019en faisant les 100 pas dans la salle \u00e0 manger.<\/p>\n

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\"im<\/p>\n

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Bravo mon Teddy!! Je t\u2019aime plus gros que l\u2019univers.<\/p>\n

Xx<\/p>\n

Maman<\/p>\n

sources: Vanessa Sicotte,<\/a>\u00a0Letting Go<\/a>, Tecolene<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00c0 37 ans et apr\u00e8s 3 enfants, je peux finalement crier victoire! Victoire de pouvoir tourner la page sur le long\u2026 tr\u00e8s long, chapitre des couches.     C\u2019est que j\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 il y a 10 ans avec Ma\u2019ila – et mon z\u00e8le de jeune m\u00e8re – de ne lui faire porter que des couches…<\/p>\n

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