{"id":16739,"date":"2016-01-15T16:52:37","date_gmt":"2016-01-15T21:52:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.damasketdentelle.com\/?p=16739"},"modified":"2020-07-30T13:13:31","modified_gmt":"2020-07-30T17:13:31","slug":"le-prix-du-succes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/damasketdentelle.com\/index.php\/2016\/01\/le-prix-du-succes\/","title":{"rendered":"Le prix du succ\u00e8s"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"being<\/p>\n

Vous m’auriez demand\u00e9, il y a 7 ans,\u00a0ce que je ferais aujourd’hui et les chances que je vous r\u00e9ponde ce qui en est aurait \u00e9t\u00e9 nil. Ce blogue que j’ai cr\u00e9\u00e9 en cong\u00e9 de maternit\u00e9, comme lieu de partage d’une passion pour la d\u00e9coration qui m’animait, n’\u00e9tait que \u00e7a… une passion, pas une carri\u00e8re.<\/p>\n

Mais les ann\u00e9es ont pass\u00e9es & \u00a0je me suis invit\u00e9e dans vos salons, \u00e0 travers votre \u00e9cran de t\u00e9l\u00e9<\/a>, pendant que\u00a0le blogue<\/a> est devenu une entreprise<\/a> \u00e0 part enti\u00e8re, un carrefour d’achats<\/a>,\u00a0et plus\u00a0r\u00e9cemment un livre<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Avec le succ\u00e8s vient le jugement<\/h4>\n

Ce modeste succ\u00e8s je ne l’ai pas vol\u00e9, je l’ai\u00a0pay\u00e9 plein prix. Non seulement\u00a0pay\u00e9 en entier, mais pay\u00e9 d’avance en plus. Au prix de centaines d’heures de travail, de sacrifices, de compromis, de coups de pied dans les fesses – car travailler seule de la maison ce n’est pas toujours facile, et de patience. Comme le disait si bien Zig Ziglar: “L’ascenseur du succ\u00e8s est bris\u00e9 mais l’escalier est toujours ouvert” et j’en ai mont\u00e9 des mosus<\/em> de marches!<\/p>\n

Mais \u00e7a, \u00e7a ne veut rien dire du tout pour certaines personnes qui pensent que je l’ai facile<\/em>. Je ne vous ai jamais racont\u00e9 \u00e7a, mais j’y pense souvent et \u00e7a me trouble encore. L’hiver dernier, nous avons tent\u00e9 de faire faire du ski \u00e0 notre fils autiste. Le simple fait de lui enfiler des bottes et un casque l’a fait hurler et se d\u00e9battre dans tous les sens. J’avais beau lui parler calmement, tendrement, transpirer abondamment, le rassurer que \u00e7a allait bien aller, rien n’y faisait. Il \u00e9tait en crise et surtout en d\u00e9tresse. Derri\u00e8re moi, deux dames ont comment\u00e9 la situation en disant: “Ben on le sait bien, tu as vu comment son fils est mal \u00e9lev\u00e9. Elle fait de la t\u00e9l\u00e9, \u00e7a doit \u00eatre sa nanny qui \u00e9l\u00e8ve ses petits, m\u00eame pas elle, car elle ne sait clairement pas comment faire.”<\/p>\n

Mon coeur s’est aussi bris\u00e9 maintes fois \u00e0 lire des messages incendiers, dont le plus r\u00e9cent est arriv\u00e9 ce matin sur ma page Facebook. Cette Am\u00e9lie, je ne l’ai jamais rencontr\u00e9e mais clairement je semble l’avoir bless\u00e9. Sa hargne, palpable, m’a fait frissonner. Pas pour les noms qu’elle me donne, mais pour le fait qu’elle s’imagine que ma vie\u00a0est d\u00e9pourvue de toute substance et authenticit\u00e9.<\/p>\n

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\"leBoss Lady<\/h4>\n

Quelle est la morale de l’histoire alors? Et bien que des haters et des trolls<\/em> – c’est comme \u00e7a qu’on appelle les cyber-bullies – il y en a et qu’ils ont le droit de s’exprimer. Ceci \u00e9tant dit, j’ai aussi le droit de m’exprimer et de leur dire que leur venin n’empoisonnera jamais tout l’amour que j’ai pour mon m\u00e9tier, pour les gens pour qui j’ai ajout\u00e9 un peu de bonheur \u00e0 leur vie, et pour chacun d’entre vous qui prenez chaque jour le temps de me partager une tranche de votre vie. \u00c0 la fin de la journ\u00e9e ce qui j’ai acquis \u00e0 la sueur de mon clavier, \u00e7a m’appartient et personne ne pourra jamais me l’enlever. Si vous les voyez, dites leur simplement qu’ils peuvent m’appeler: Boss Lady<\/em>.<\/p>\n

\"travailler<\/p>\n

\"boss<\/p>\n

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Vous m’auriez demand\u00e9, il y a 7 ans,\u00a0ce que je ferais aujourd’hui et les chances que je vous r\u00e9ponde ce qui en est aurait \u00e9t\u00e9 nil. Ce blogue que j’ai cr\u00e9\u00e9 en cong\u00e9 de maternit\u00e9, comme lieu de partage d’une passion pour la d\u00e9coration qui m’animait, n’\u00e9tait que \u00e7a… une passion, pas une carri\u00e8re. Mais…<\/p>\n

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