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You are here: Home / Monday Musing / The Devil on My Shoulder: The Art of Discipline

January 19, 2015

The Devil on My Shoulder: The Art of Discipline

 

lizard illo

 

I am a lizard, well at least I think I am. I love basking in the sun, lazily sashaying myself from a comfortable spot to another, without any agenda whatsoever.

Over the years, I have come to know myself… all of myself, including my Achilles heel that is discipline. I know I can lift mountains when I set my mind to it, and yet it sometimes seems an impossible feat, even for the simplest of tasks.

What’s worse is that I wasn’t always like this. I remember a time when I could refuse a piece of desert without a pang of envy, or when I could write 10 blogposts in advance in order to have a computer free time off with my family.

motivational quote

 

I have read the books and listened to the motivational speakers encouraging me, as I listened to their shellacked performances and aspirational pathways on my phone while running. I have written in the progress journals and set myself realistic goals. But it seems that the only goal I can achieve over and over again, is to disappoint myself.

As I now inch, one day at a time, towards my 38th birthday I have come to realize something. Oust shall go the books and all the rest! The only discipline I will now follow will be my own. The one that feels good to me, my reality, and my lazy lizard body.

 

There, you take that self-esteem! It’s time to get out of your slumber and move your ass, we have a book to write !

xx

business woman

source: Katarina Sokolova, Pink Sugarland, La Vita di Moda

 

 

 

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  1. Emilie says

    January 19, 2015 at 10:36

    Haha I have read many books too, and I was trying to fight the lizard every day. But sometimes, I just want to be myself! :)

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  2. Valerie says

    February 7, 2015 at 09:02

    I read something that rang true to me the other day: managing time is really about managing energy. Lightbulb moment for me, as I can’t quite have that sacro-saint discipline wich I put on my sholders (too). We live busy lives and we can’t expect to have the same amount of energy all the time. Managing my energy levels is easier for me and my self-esteem. ;)

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    • VanessaBlog says

      February 7, 2015 at 13:43

      Food for thought indeed. :)

      Reply
  3. Melissa De La Rosa says

    March 4, 2015 at 11:36

    Hi there! Thank you so much for using me as a source! I LOVE YOUR BLOG! Nice to meet you :)

    Reply

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Hello I am Vanessa Sicotte. Welcome to what has been my online home since 2009. I am an an art historian, author, a speaker, podcaster, blogger, student but most of all, I am a storyteller.

After 14 years of sharing inspirations and all things decor, I am now refocusing this platform's mission to include urban stories and manifestos.

J'écris en anglais et aussi la belle langue de Molière.

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